Dirk Lavon Staley Sr.

“Carve your name in hearts not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you” ~ Sharon Alder

Remembering Dirk;

Dirk’s parents tended the family farm in Beaverton, Michigan, and were teachers when they welcomed their son into this world. Dirk, along with his sister, Sharon, were taught the value of hard work and a good education. Dirk grew up on the farm that he owned his entire life. Bailing hay, milking cows, and working the land lead into the future drive of his life. The lessons Dirk learned from his parents were put to use in both his academic and athletic excellence. He achieved high marks in school and played baseball, football, and basketball for Beaverton.

In the days where strong strapping farm boys ruled the fields and court, Dirk rose to the challenge. Dirk would often speak of his “glory days”. After graduation, Dirk left the farm and headed to the big city of Flint, Michigan, where he was hired into General Motors at the age of 18. He put in the next 30 years at “Chevy in the Hole”.

Dirk enjoyed hunting, gambling, fast cars, faster motorcycles, and the people who could keep up with him. Many tired few could. The stories of his adventures are endless. As his children were born and grew, Dirk, as their coach, was able to pass along his passion for sports. He pushed hard and taught them to always do their best. Dirk himself played softball well into his fifties. To say Dirk was a fierce competitor would be an understatement.

Retiring at the age of 48 allowed Dirk the freedom he always sought. He returned to the family farm he loved and married Linda. They spent the next 27 years by each other's side, almost constantly doing whatever they pleased. In his most recent years, Dirk loved to play poker and as in his younger days remained a “card shark”. He knew when to hold ‘em and he knew when to fold ‘em.

Sports were a large part of who Dirk was even after his athlete days were done. He and his wife, Linda, spent much time watching Dirk's favorite teams: the Tigers, Lions and above all, the University of Michigan. Dirk would colorfully word his “coaching” to the television from the comfort of his favorite chair, enjoying times filled with frustration and joy of the ups and downs of a Michigan sports fan.

Dirk was his wife's fierce protector and his daughter’s hero. His sons were raised in tough love just as Dirk was. Working men who lived Dirk's lifestyle end their lives with pain and regrets. Dirk however, was equal to the pain and had no regrets.

Dirk lived his life on his terms. They no longer have the mold that made Dirk Staley.

Dirk is survived by his wife, Linda Staley, who he cherished and spoiled immensely. His children Tonni Hinkins(Brian), Dirk Staley Jr.(Kristy), Roxanne Rogers, Derek Staley(Kim), Daryl Staley(Stacey). His 16 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren.

Gone before him are his much admired parents Norris and Ardis Staley. His beloved sister Sharon Staley.

A private celebration of life is to be held at the place he cherished most, The Staley Family Farm.

Arrangements are in the care of Hall-Kokotovich Funeral Home. www.hallkokotovichfuneralhome.com